It has been my experience that new clients are often unsure what to expect in the first counseling session. At times, they feel doubt about what to say or do. There can be nervousness and anxiety about opening up to someone you’re meeting for the first time, especially when you find that you are sharing difficulties you may not have discussed with anyone else.The first session is an opportunity for both the therapist and the client to get a sense of each other and begin working together.
Research indicates that the therapeutic fit between client and therapist is a crucial element to the change process. As the client, you will want to see how comfortable you feel in the presence of the therapist you are working with. You are not expected to trust the therapist completely from the beginning, but you should be able to have a sense of him or her as someone you could trust over time. The counselor tries to get an overall sense of the new client in the first session – what difficulties they’re dealing with currently, what has occurred in their past, how they view themselves, and perhaps some background about their childhood and subsequent relationships. The first session is often an assessment on many levels. The therapist assesses what your needs are, what you would like help with, and why you have come to therapy. While you may have many needs, it’s imperative that the therapist find out what YOU want, why YOU came, and what YOU specifically need that brought you to therapy so they can help guide and support you moving forward.
What To Ask The Counselor
It’s also ok to ask questions of the therapist. How long have they been treating people? What is their background and training? What is their style of working? What types of clients do they work with? How much is the session? How often can I get on the schedule? These types of questions will give you a better sense of the therapist’s perspective and experience. It is imperative that you have a sense that the therapist understands and can work with you to help you make the changes you want in your life. It can be a relief to rid yourself of the things you’ve been bearing on your own. Again, some trepidation or angst prior to your first session is normal. Don’t let the anxiety about meeting with a therapist keep you from the peace you are seeking.
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