Grief and Loss: Understanding Bonding & Attachment

Most individuals experience loss at some level at some point in their lives. Loss of a friend who has moved away or of a pet that passes is a common experience for children as they grow and develop. What makes loss difficult is primarily due to the attachments or bonds that are created when we […]
Communication in Relationships and Marriage
Healthy Relationships Communication is the path by which individuals share and exchange information about their perceptions, feelings, and thoughts. It is imperative that individuals learn to engage and connect with others in ways that promote healthy relationships and bonding within them. Many adolescents I work with and adults alike, struggle to communicate in ways that are supportive […]
Marriage Counseling, Who Needs it?

Many marry with hopes of memories and many years of love and connection with their spouse. Marriage often starts with a bang: flowers, ceremony, family, then off to the honeymoon. Too often, couples lack the skills to keep the ’spark’ they started with when they first married. Many factors enter in and make marriage more […]
Mindfulness: Purposeful Awareness In Relationships
Mindfulness has its roots in Buddhist teaching with respect to pondering and meditation. One need not subscribe to Eastern religion to adhere to pondering and mindfulness. It can be lived in common every day life. Mindfulness is the state within which one has keen and clear awareness. It is conceptualized as a mental state that […]
Confidentiality – How It Works in Therapy
Often clients ask, “Are the things I talk about in counseling kept confidential? The answer is “yes.” As the patient you have the right to have absolute privacy and confidentiality in counseling with me. This means that without your explicit consent, I am prevented from discussing information you share during your sessions with anyone else […]
Copyrights Regarding Site Content
The content on this site is written by Justin Stum, LMFT and is intended for general mental health education and support. Reading these articles does not establish a therapist-client relationship. If you are in need of mental health support, please reach out to a licensed professional in your area. You are welcome to quote from […]
Articles by Justin Stum
Most Popular What Is It Most Women Really Want? Self-Esteem: Knowing Your Value and Worth How To Overcome Obsessive Compulsive Behavior, OCD Overcoming Depression, Finding Hope – Robin Williams Your First Therapy Session Not Just Friends: Emotional Affairs and Infidelity My Spouse Won’t Come To Counseling, Now What? 5 Signs Of A Healthy Couple Relationship […]